Mental Image Pictures
The Master Key To Effective Communication

By Rev. William H. Duby


The master key to effective communication is the proper use of the faculty of mind known as the imagination. Those that are wise are not only brilliant but smart as well. For they are keenly aware to speak graphically when desiring to communicate unto another. By doing so they leave no doubt in the mind of the individual they are speaking with in regard to whatever needs to be said and clearly understood for personal comprehension.

When communication is not graphically depicted then misperception is not only possible but probable. In fact, I see this happening quite often. Couples are the greatest to watch as learning lessons of what not to do. They'll sit down to talk and get nowhere while foolishly believing they've gotten somewhere. They'll think they communicated but they only directed words at each other. It is like facing a machine gun in rapid fire. They have no idea how much psychic damage they are doing to each other. Often, it takes years for these psychic scars to become repaired for well being. We call this dastardly deed as being stuck on mental image pictures.

This is a typical scenario between the opposite sexes.

He will say one thing and mean another.

She will listen to his words but intuit his meaning. Her womanhood will know by the expression of his words that he's trying to lie to her.

He'll be looking at her facial expression with the false hope that she is buying into his story. At some point - she'll become uncomfortable with him.

If he's not dead he'll sense the change in her energy and/or mood swing. He'll either ask her if she understands or stop talking long enough to see her response to what he has said about the subject.

If she decides to open up and talk - she'll do so with the intent of trying to clarify what he said with what he meant. Only doing so because she's giving him the benefit of her doubt. Then she will sit back (within herself) and wait with baited breath for him to trap himself in the next sentence or two.

Should he begin to try to modify what he first said - her mood will emerge as anger because she feels invalidated. The truth has been intuited by her womanhood and she knows this for certain. Yet, at first she will say nothing. Something is up that is bothering her......something is wrong that defies her imagination.....she's on to something.......she's discovered what she prayed she'd never notice.

It is now that her female prowess becomes her genius. She is no longer playing for fun. She begins to play for keeps. The tentacles of her emotions flair into hatred because of the suspected lie. And it may be unfortunate that her mate seems to be the liar. Nevertheless, her warrior instinct gets the best of her and her imagination begins to run away with her like the female spider spins the web to catch her prey. She desires above all else to "slay the dragon." All because she suspects something other than an honest to God report.

If he's an idiot he'll repeatedly modify his original statement. Always hoping he can escape her intuitive insight without getting into further trouble. He'll keep changing and rearranging his wording for her approval.

The more he dances in his mind with the intent to skirt the issue as his cover up, the more confused and bewildered she will appear. But, she is not confused or bewildered. She's in a trance like state of clarified perception. Silently still like the dead of night just awaiting the golden opportunity of nailing her victim that dares attempt to victimize the keen insight of her Queenship in relationship to the God of her heart. And she'll tolerate only so much before he's catalogued in her mind as a liar. Th en she'll attack with the soul searing statements that would pulverize the bravest knight in King Arthur's court.

In the silence of secrecy she's delivered her woe directly into his heart with deadly accuracy. He will feel in due time the agony of his defeat in trying to play mental charades. And since time stands still for no man, especially with a woman who forgets nothing and forgives nothing, he'll soon experience what Dracula felt when the wooden stake pierced his heart. Ouch!

Even if he gets away with invalidating her he'll not have succeeded in his attempt to escape. Does the rat escape the cat? There is some holy mechanism within her psyche that will compel her not to trust what he says in the future. The more he talks - the more he'll be digging a grave for himself in relationship to her. As it has been said, "it is not nice to fool with Mother Nature." And when that nature is stored in the female as her womanhood it can be a bitch. She'll nag the male to death until he succu mbs to the truth. Even if it kills him and/or his relationship with her.

She will always be hoping that she is having an honest to God rapport with him. But if he doesn't come clean and/or "cop to it" - ( and the sooner the better) that he didn't say what he meant and didn't mean what he said because of his fear of reprisal - then because of his fear she will validate his fear by doing what he feared she would do. This is to say, BLOW UP! Simply put - deflate the very EGO she fed!

Then he'll wonder why she considers him a snake or a rat. He doesn't merit the station of a King in her eyes. He's been dethroned by self deceit. All because he lied in the first place. And in the last place she has to be true to her nature for safety and security of her gender. She is the spirit within the female and her womanhood is born of the immortal fire of marital love gifted unto her by the Divine Providence or the grace of the Living God.

To talk with a rap is to put yourself in the trap of bringing upon yourself the unholy most. Anyone can rap by spewing the rhetoric of phraseology. In fact, many do. It is unwise to do so. That, however, has not thwarted the efforts of the masses to be other than wise. It seems to be common place whenever evil rules the roost of the profaned heart. I suspect this is the primary reason why there happens to be a 60% divorce rate in this immoral society. Many try to hide their feelings by spewing rhetoric of t wisted truth.

Standard cliche is the surface talk or method of perverse conversation that says nothing worthwhile to hear. It is anything but frank, honest and to the point. It is called a "snow job." You hear a lot of words but they say nothing of an honest to God expression of true feelings and/or heartfelt conviction. Your mind is filled with mental excrement.

Politicians exercise rhetoric with the psychic bent, of intent, of persuading the public to vote for them. They tell the people what they want to hear rather than what they need to know for proper discernment. If the people knew beforehand what they discover afterwards, how many of the elected officials would have been voted into office?

Ministers exercise rhetoric with the psychic bent, of intent, of persuading the congregation. They tell the members what they want to hear rather than what they need to know for proper discernment. If the people knew beforehand what they discover afterwards, how many of the congregation would have listened in the first place?

Lovers exercise rhetoric with the psychic bent, of intent, of persuading the other to do their bidding. They size each other up for suiting. How many women would go to bed with a man if he said beforehand that he didn't love her. That he simply wanted to self gratify himself?

No woman in her right mind is satisfied with simply going to bed with a man. She wants the whole nine yards. This is to say, she wants the whole "fairy tale" story. She desires above all else for her dream to come true.

Rhetoric can be twisted to serve the intent of the speaker. He can look honest, sound honest while being as dishonest as the devil himself. Those who have a false pride in regard to themselves will twist the truth by the exercise of rhetoric. Their talk appears to be intelligent when, in truth, it is flaunting their stupidity. If they knew that what they were doing was putting them, as well as the listener, into a stupor (day dream) they'd be more careful not only in what they said but how they said it. One cannot be stupid (swallow the hype) unless they are in a stupor (day dream). A stupor is a spell bound condition of hypnosis that takes place whenever rhetoric is exercised beyond the expression of saying hello or goodbye to another.

Rhetoric is exercised with the intent to beguile. Look at the synonyms for the word beguile. Allure, attract, bedevil, bewitch, captivate, charm, conjure, delight, enchant, magnetize, mesmerize, tempt, wile, defraud, cheat, dupe, victimize, trick.

If we desire to remain awake and alert then we need to be aware of the dangers of spewing forth rhetorical statements with the intent to avoid expressing our feelings and/or to prevent the feelings of another from being hurt. More feelings are hurt by dishonesty than by the employment of honesty. This is why the statement has been coined. "Honesty is the best policy."

To communicate is to commune with the mindset of another for rapport. In order for that joy to be experienced then the individuals involved must say what they mean and mean what they say. And the only way to do that is to communicate with the intent to exercise the trained mind and tamed tongue with the diction necessary to describe the mental image pictures within your imagination that properly correlates to the subject matter at hand.

This is an honest to God rapport with the other. As close as two can become when interacting with each other. A bona fide union of friendship. Or, as I like to say - if you desire to converse the perverse - then you need to traverse the worse - in the other that you desire to be in rapport with. A little play on words but those with ears to hear will easily understand for they demand of themselves to have a command of the English language.

A word to the wise is sufficient and a whole book is wasted on a fool. Don't participate in bringing out the "dark side" in another. There will be hell to pay because you didn't pay attention to the prevention of deceitfulness. Honesty is the best policy.

To speak and say nothing is deadly, for the thought forms of death are invoked. Yet, to speak and say something is lively for the thought forms of life are invoked.

If I desire to exercise my mind to properly use my imagination then I must know beforehand what I desire to express. I must first realize what I need to describe for your mind to behold as an honest representation of what I am depicting.

It will do neither of us any good for myself to use words that say nothing outside your life experience. Or, to talk just to please you.

It will do no good trying to tell you about chocolate if you've never tasted chocolate. The best I can do is relate the experience with something that is relative to chocolate. If I dare try to do otherwise you'll flip out and/or your imagination will begin to run away with you while attempting to make sense of my wording. So, if wisdom is the better part of valor, I'll first build a rapport with you before I try to tell you about chocolate. And do so with the intent of discovering if you've ever had ice cr eam.

If you have tasted ice cream - what flavor?

If the flavor was fudge - I'll be at liberty to honestly say, chocolate is similar. Get the idea?

It may seem silly (to the uneducated) to take all this time to try to speak in wording. Yet, it is imperative to do so if you care about the welfare of another. Not to do so is taking the other for granted. We often forget that the other, in nearly every case, did not grow up under the same circumstances as we did. They may be of a different race, color, creed, sex or national origin. And if so they have been indoctrinated to believe what those that raised them did believe as gospel.

Without taking the time to build the rapport with the others, not risking the chance of taking them for granted regardless of how long you've known them, you can't possibly become harmonized with them under the tenants of friendship. There are differences that must be appreciated if wise. This is being loving towards another. It affords yourself the blessing of gleaning patience as your virtue. And I might add that if you have accomplished this activity with those that you do care about - it is time to move onward and upward in consciousness by doing the same thing with those you have yet learned to be careful with, in this careful manner, for the spiritual experience of being mindful rather than mindless. Only by doing so can you rest assured that you've done your best in relationship with others.

The Art and Science of Communication is the prevalent experience of soul searching for the avenue of expression that will subside the psychological agony of loneliness. When in rapport with another the psyche within both is harmonized by the beautific vision of an honest to God communication. If it wasn't for the art of the imagination then the artist (communicator), who desires to speak well for himself, couldn't exercise the recall faculty of the mind to express himself clearly. Yet, he can if willing ari se to the occasion by practicing the science of communication in the precise manner I have described for well being of all parties concerned.

If you want to remain well then speak well. "Everything you say is a prayer for or against yourself." Keep things simple by describing what you say by what you mean. A rose may be a rose by any other name. But, often times, the word flower is not enough to depict unto the mind of another for them to recall the mental image picture necessary for clear communication.

The reason the mind becomes clouded is that a lot of mentality has not been discerned by the individual. He cannot see the trees for the forest. He is defiled because he's not been able to file (in his imagination) the mental image pictures that were stirred up when his imagination did run away with him and/or he became overwhelmed by the emotional overload of thinking too much and too hard to try to solve what can only be resolved by clear communication.

If people can think themselves sick then they can think themselves well. In fact, you, if a friend, can help them by first helping yourself to realize that you need to speak clearly by being precise in your desire to communicate to them.

What others think of you may not be your business. But what you think of yourself in relationship to another is not only your business but your duty. You are your brother's keeper. Keep him well by keeping yourself harnessed with the intent to exercise your mind not only on his behalf but your own as well.

Words are expressions that dictate what quality of thought is to be formed within the psyche for motivation. It is obvious that in a world of duality each word can have a positive or negative expression. And, of course, what is positive to one is often negative to another. So care must be exercised when speaking to another for well being.

As said, "talk is cheap." Likewise, "communication is precious."

I hear many people reference themselves as being blocked. Blocked from what I wonder? If they are being blocked from hell then why unblock them? In other words, why destroy the mental image pictures that are keeping them harnessed? Only a fool would do such a thing. Yet, if they were blocked from heaven - that's a different story as far as I can see. Assuredly, if psychically attuned to do so, destroy the mental image pictures that block them from entering within and communing with the God of their heart.

In other words, do all you can to help them become unclouded. By doing so - you are helping yourself beyond belief. At the same time - however - if you are participating in destroying those mental image pictures that block them from hell - you are hurting yourself beyond belief. For, in truth, the holy mechanism within them will only recreate the mental image pictures. Doing so for the protection of preserving their soul memory.

In your case, however, it will not be that way. All because you were trying to enlist them into your heaven and/or what you thought heaven to be in relationship to you rather than the God of their heart. As said, "one man's junk is another man's treasure." So, as a consequence - by trying to enlist them into your heaven - your growth period will be that you will take on their hell until you become repented of your dastardly deed.

As a healer, and especially as a psychic reader, it is best to look before you leap into being over zealous when it comes to another. In fact, it would be good to apply that trait unto yourself. Unto another, however, it is paramount that you learn quickly - "not to jump out of the frying pan into the fire." Always ask before you act and/or take it upon yourself to enter the domain of another and create or destroy mental image pictures for them.

Does not the Lord's Prayer say....."forgive us our trespassing as we forgive others?" Well, then, forgive yourself for being stupid in foolishly thinking that you can take matters into your own hands before the mind of another speaks up and asks you to act on their behalf. Again, I state, "A word to the wise is sufficient and a whole book is wasted upon a fool."

Rev. Bill


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